{"id":50390,"date":"2021-11-03T15:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-03T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/?p=50390"},"modified":"2025-04-17T16:18:16","modified_gmt":"2025-04-17T07:18:16","slug":"rules-of-etiquette-in-korea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/blog\/rules-of-etiquette-in-korea\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 10 rules of etiquette in Korea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When travelling to another country, one is confronted with different customs and traditions, and Korea is no different. Like all Asian cultures, Korea has a set of rules to follow, imposed by society on certain occasions. Le<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">t&#8217;s take a look at the top 10 <\/span><b>rules of etiquette<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in Korea.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>10 rules of etiquette in Korea that you want to follow<\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-61638 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Scarpe.png\" alt=\"Shoes outside a door - Rules of etiquette in Korea\" width=\"798\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Scarpe.png 798w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Scarpe-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Scarpe-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 798px) 100vw, 798px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>1. Taking off your shoes<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the main rules of etiquette in Korea is to take off your shoes before entering someone&#8217;s house. <strong>You don&#8217;t wear shoes in the house<\/strong>, because it&#8217;s not hygienic after walking down the street, and Koreans, like many other Asian people,\u00a0 sleep, study, eat, and spend most of their time on the floor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It may even be the case that in some traditional, wooden-floored restaurants, you are required to remove your shoes, so don&#8217;t be too surprised!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>2. Bowing<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just like in Japan, in Korea people bow as <strong>a sign of respect<\/strong>, especially between people they don&#8217;t know or work colleagues. It is not uncommon to see students bowing when they meet their <em>sunbae<\/em> (older student), just as it is common for the <em>ajumma<\/em> at the restaurant (middle-aged lady) to bow when greeting you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Among the rules of etiquette in Korea, there are various <strong>types<\/strong> of bows. The more informal ones consist of simply bowing your head, while the more formal ones involve deep bows in which the degree changes depending on the person you are greeting. It&#8217;s literally, 15\u00b0, 30\u00b0, 45\u00b0, as if you were standing there with a protractor calculating them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-59859\" src=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Drinking-culture.png\" alt=\"Korean etiquette - Drinking culture\" width=\"798\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Drinking-culture.png 798w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Drinking-culture-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Drinking-culture-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 798px) 100vw, 798px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>3. Drinking in company<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you may have seen in some of the<a href=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/blog\/some-curiosities-about-k-dramas-korean-tv-series\/\"> <em>K-dramas,<\/em><\/a> drinking culture is very important in Korea. Drinking in company is a sign of unity, respect for the elderly or higher-ups, and is also a way to relieve tension after work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Among the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/blog\/korean-drinking-culture\/\"><b>rules of etiquette in Korea when drinking<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0there are:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never pour your own drinks;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never pour a drink with one hand (hold your wrist or elbow with the other);<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never drink in front of an elderly person, but turn slightly to the right;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never refuse a glass (unless you are allergic or you don\u2019t drink, then it is good to mention this beforehand).<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A secret: if you don&#8217;t want to drink like a sponge, <strong>try never to empty your glass<\/strong>. It is only filled when empty!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>4. Giving thanks before and after meals<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just like in Japan, in South Korea there is a <strong>ritual of giving thanks before and after each meal.<\/strong> When you start to eat, you put your hands together and say <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jal meokkesseumnida<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uc798<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uba39\uaca0\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) or &#8220;I will eat well&#8221;. (corresponding to our &#8220;good appetite&#8221;). At the end of the meal, the expression <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">jal meogeosseumnida<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uc798<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\uba39\uc5c8\uc2b5\ub2c8\ub2e4<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">) is used to thank and show that one enjoyed the meal.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>5. Sharing food<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Koreans traditionally like to share food with their dining companions. That&#8217;s why when you go out to eat at someone&#8217;s house or a restaurant in Korea, you&#8217;ll be served a series of small plates as an appetizer, which you&#8217;ll share with others at the table. Also <strong>when ordering food<\/strong>, if you are going with friends or a Korean partner, it is good to order food that can be shared.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you ask &#8220;What about pizza?&#8221;, that&#8217;s also shared. It is already served in slices, and it is not good etiquette in Korea to eat a whole pizza by yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>6. Don&#8217;t tip<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tipping is not customary in South Korea under any circumstances. It is considered rude and disrespectful as Koreans consider offering good service a duty, not a &#8216;favour&#8217; to the customer.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-57284 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Rules-of-etiquette-in-Korea.png\" alt=\"Rules of etiquette in Korea - Exchanging business cards\" width=\"798\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Rules-of-etiquette-in-Korea.png 798w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Rules-of-etiquette-in-Korea-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Rules-of-etiquette-in-Korea-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 798px) 100vw, 798px\" \/><\/h2>\n<h3>7. Giving and receiving with two hands<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <strong>business card<\/strong> is considered very important in Korea, as it presents and defines the person you are talking to. Koreans follow the social dictates of rank, so in the formal act of exchanging business cards, keep two things in mind: give with two hands and receive with two hands. Receiving a business card with one hand is tantamount to offending the other person, so be very careful especially if you are handing the business card to your future employer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same applies to <strong>gifts and money<\/strong>, including credit cards. If you may have your hands full with bags and envelopes, and you need to pay at the checkout, it&#8217;s OK to use one in that case.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>8. Don&#8217;t sit in reserved seats on the train<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is deeply disrespectful to sit on reserved seats in the train. They are always a <strong>different colour<\/strong> from the others, and there are 9-12 of them on each train. You may not notice it at first as a foreigner, but you may be rudely told off, in Korean, by the person to whom the seat rightfully belongs to (elderly, disabled or pregnant women).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-59852 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Respect-the-elderly.png\" alt=\"Rules of etiquette in Korea - Respect the elderly\" width=\"798\" height=\"449\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Respect-the-elderly.png 798w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Respect-the-elderly-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Korean-etiquette-Respect-the-elderly-768x432.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 798px) 100vw, 798px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>9. Respecting the elderly<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This would be a good rule to follow in any country in the world, and we should often take these rules of etiquette in Korea as an example. Apart from giving up their seats in trains or buses, Koreans are generally <strong>very respectful towards older people<\/strong>. This can be seen in the way they call each other, using specific terms depending on the age of the other person (we mentioned something about this in our article on<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/blog\/common-korean-phrases-relationships-and-dramas\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Korean dramas<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An example is at the dinner table, where you have to wait until the older people have picked up their chopsticks before you can start eating. If you&#8217;re not sure about the person\u2019s age you&#8217;re eating with, it&#8217;s best to wait for them to start before you do, so you don&#8217;t risk making a bad impression.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>10. Writing your name in red<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you are not particularly <a href=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/blog\/9-korean-superstitions\/\">superstitious<\/a>, it is best to avoid writing your name or someone else&#8217;s name in red. In the past in Korea, it was customary to <strong>write the names of the dead in red<\/strong> on family registers or funeral insignia. It is said that evil spirits hate the colour red.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These are the main rules of etiquette in Korea. Are there any others you were shocked to learn (or were you lucky enough to discover them before any embarrassing incidents)?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For more information on Korean life and culture, follow our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/blog\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">blog<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or <a href=\"https:\/\/gogohanguk.com\/en\/#form\">contact us<\/a> if you are interested in living and studying in Korea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When travelling to another country, one is confronted with different customs and traditions, and Korea is no different. Like all Asian cultures, Korea has a set of rules to follow, imposed by society on certain occasions. 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